What’s your ‘One Thing’??

So I'll be honest I didn't really think seriously about marriage, or what kind of man I wanted to be with, or when I wanted to get married before I met Hiroshi.When I say seriously I mean I did think I seriously want to get married and meet the 'one', "someone who could fulfill me" … Continue reading What’s your ‘One Thing’??

あなたの人生でのギャップをどのように埋めるか – 自分が十分じゃないと感じだ時にどうするか

あなたの人生でのギャップをどのように埋めるか - 自分が十分じゃないと感じだ時にどう

What NOT to say in your Marriage – Words and Phrases to steer clear of in Marriage.

“You ALWAYS say that...”  “You NEVER take the rubbish out...”  “You are always complaining about that...”  “I’m cleaning up after you all the time” “You can’t understand me...”  “You never listen to me”  “NOTHING EVER pleases you!” “Let’s just get divorced then...!” Have you ever found yourself saying some of these phrases? Then you may have succumbed to … Continue reading What NOT to say in your Marriage – Words and Phrases to steer clear of in Marriage.

What memories are you making?

This weekend we went to Disneyland! One of my dreams, was to take my kids to Disneyland, I love the magic of it all and the memories we can create their! Even though my daughter is only 2 and probably won't remember a lot, seeing her twirl to the Cinderella music and get excited about … Continue reading What memories are you making?

夫を励ましサポートするために大切な4つの事

時々気づくことがある。夫が必要としていることや願っていることに、特に気を配っていない自分がいることに。彼は自分自身の人生に満足していると勝手に想定して、どうやったら彼が、私自身の必要を満たしてくれるかだけを考える。彼自身だって、夢や必要としていることがあって、応援して欲しい気持ちがそこにあることを忘れて。

3 Ways to be ‘Team Mates’ in your Parenting

It was an ice cream that fueled it. Such a fuss over ice cream. I like ice cream, but my daughter inevitably likes it more! I had already established a rule with her that she could have ice cream if she collected all the pom poms in her "I'm nice" jar. (This was a jar … Continue reading 3 Ways to be ‘Team Mates’ in your Parenting

夫に家族に関わってもらう4つの理由

第1子の娘が生まれた時、すごく不安だったと思う、9年間幼稚園の先生としてたくさん子ども達の面倒を見てきたけれど、自分の赤ちゃんをどう世話すればよいか分からず、その小さな彼女を腕に寄せた時びびってしまった。どれだけ多く子育て本を読んでも、次の準備を十分にしてはくれない。