The Gift of Marriage

Last month was our 5 year Wedding anniversary. In 5 years a lot happened, we bought a house, had 2 kids, my husband started a business and many other things happened along the way. It's been a great 5 years, we have grown in love with each other more and more and have grown closer … Continue reading The Gift of Marriage

あなたのたった1つのものは?

正直に言うと、ひろしに出会う前まで、結婚についてもどんな人と一緒になりたいかもあまり真剣に考えたことがなかった。

What’s your ‘One Thing’??

So I'll be honest I didn't really think seriously about marriage, or what kind of man I wanted to be with, or when I wanted to get married before I met Hiroshi.When I say seriously I mean I did think I seriously want to get married and meet the 'one', "someone who could fulfill me" … Continue reading What’s your ‘One Thing’??

あなたの人生でのギャップをどのように埋めるか – 自分が十分じゃないと感じだ時にどうするか

あなたの人生でのギャップをどのように埋めるか - 自分が十分じゃないと感じだ時にどう

How to fill the gaps in your life – What to do when we feel we are not enough

I have been a kindergarten teacher for 10 years. I'm not a trained teacher, but in Japan it is easy to get a job as an English teacher without a license. So always having wanted to be a teacher of little ones,  I was blessed to so easily find a job doing what I love … Continue reading How to fill the gaps in your life – What to do when we feel we are not enough

結婚の中で言ってはいけないこと – 結婚の中で避けた方がよい言葉やフレーズ

「あなたっていつも….って言うよね」 「あなた、一回もゴミ出ししてくれたことないよね」 「あなた、いつも…のことで文句言ってるわね」 「あなたの後、いつも私が後片付けしてるよね」 「あなたって本当に分かってくれてないわよね」 「あなたって私の話全く聞いてくれない」 「あなたを喜ばせるものって何もないわね」 「じゃあもう離婚しましょ!」 こんなフレーズ、過去に言ったことない? もし心当たりがあれば、そのトークで屈しちゃったかもね! 大丈夫、あなただけじゃない、私もたまにこんな事を言ってしまった時もあるから!

What NOT to say in your Marriage – Words and Phrases to steer clear of in Marriage.

“You ALWAYS say that...”  “You NEVER take the rubbish out...”  “You are always complaining about that...”  “I’m cleaning up after you all the time” “You can’t understand me...”  “You never listen to me”  “NOTHING EVER pleases you!” “Let’s just get divorced then...!” Have you ever found yourself saying some of these phrases? Then you may have succumbed to … Continue reading What NOT to say in your Marriage – Words and Phrases to steer clear of in Marriage.